Last night we pinned a rose on another happy Bachelorette couple. We wish Emily and Jef a uture illed with un, amily and a lot of good ortune!

But now, lets take a walk down memory lane and see how long our past contestants have lived happily, or not so happily for-a-few-months after...

Here is a breakdown of all sixteen seasons of the Bachelor and eight seasons of the Bachelorette and the length of time before each rose wilted, or didn't! (I have added approximately 2 months to each couple who made it to the air date of the finale to account for the time lapsed between filming and airing).

As you can see, the girls are the winners here too! With Trista and Ryan as an outlier, skewing the stats considerably, the Bachelorettes average 21 months for their relationships while the boys average only 8.6 months. (I did not count Jason and Molly Mesnick in this because, come on, that doesn't count...even though I like both of them a lot and am very happy for them.)